Wednesday, August 29, 2012

When Bad Trends Strike Good People

Meet Emily Schuman, the blogger behind the massively-popular blog Cupcakes and Cashmere.  It is one of those blogs I was making fun of the other day, the kind where the photographer boyfriend (well, husband in her case) takes her picture in odd outfits doing odd things.  However, Cupcakes doesn't bother me the way most of those other blogs do, Emily comes across as very personable and unpretentious.  I was checking her blog out yesterday, and came across this picture:

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Lovely picture, and I've been ransacking my nail polish drawer to find something similar to hers.  What really stands out to me--and this is one of the hot beauty trends for fall--is her lipstick.  To me, it looks like a dark plum, and the shade she's wearing is Yves Saint Laurent's Pure Shine Lipstick in Wild Blackberry.


Here's a better close up.  The reason I hate this shade on anybody is because it ages you.  In this picture, she looks like she's in her early '40s.  Compare this to her post from earlier this month:



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Here, Emily looks like she's around my age, maybe mid-20s?  I actually didn't know her age so I googled it and she's 28.  Something as simple as lipstick can age you over 15 years.  I know it's trendy, but if it's going to age me, no way on Earth am I even going to consider it.


However, this same toffee/plum/brown lipstick is seen very often on the lips of West Virginians.  This was popular back in the '90s, just watch an early episode of Friends for verification.  I also see the same color in blush.  In fact, raisin/toffee/plum blush is usually often the only ones I see when I shop for makeup at Walmart.  Want to avoid looking older than you are or feel?  Here are some tips:


-Go to the cosmetic counters at the mall or Sephora. You don't have to buy it there--nor should you feel obligated--but they can help you pinpoint a good color you can then buy elsewhere.
-Ask them for something a blush that will brighten your face. Start off with a peach, coral, or pink.
-If you're not crazy about what they start you off with, give them some more guidance. Want something a little lighter, darker? Let them know.
-Once you find a color you like, head to where you normally buy your makeup.